It’s important to recognize that siblings may have a range of emotional needs during this time, and to provide them with the support and attention they need to adapt to their new roles as a big brother or sister.
➜ To meet the emotional needs of siblings, give them individual attention and validation. Spend one-on-one time and offer praise and encouragement for their achievements.
➜ Siblings also require stability and routine, especially during a major family change like the arrival of a new baby. Setting up new routines and maintaining a level of predictability in their daily lives can help them adjust better.
➜ Give siblings opportunities to share their thoughts and feelings about the new baby in a safe and supportive environment.
➜ Emphasize on what they CAN do with the newborn baby, like lying next to them or holding their hand. Involving them in age-appropriate tasks like feeding, changing diapers, or holding the baby can help them feel included, responsible, and proud.