Building a strong bond between siblings can take time and effort, but it’s worth it in the long run.
➜ Involve siblings in caring for the new baby. Depending on their age, they may be able to help with tasks like diaper changes, feeding, or holding the baby. Not only does this help them feel included, but it can also foster a sense of responsibility and pride.
➜ Encourage physical touch between siblings and the new baby. Holding, cuddling, and skin-to-skin contact can all help siblings bond with the new baby and develop a sense of connection.
➜ Foster positive interactions between siblings and the new baby. Encourage siblings to talk to and sing to the new baby, and celebrate their accomplishments together.
➜ Set aside special one-on-one time with each sibling. This can help them feel seen and valued, and can help them adjust to their new role as a big brother or sister.
➜ It’s important to give siblings opportunities to share their thoughts and feelings about the new baby in a safe and supportive environment.